MisterAl wrote:
Compare it to Big Brother, or to Weakest Link, or to any game where people make decisions that affect another player's position in the game. If that doesn't put pressure on the participants' relationships then I don't know what does.
I think with those programmes, though, the conflict between players is a necessary part of the game; nobody could audition for either of them and complain when they were told they had to vote someone off. In DOND, while all the players are there for so many shows, they in theory have very little to do with any games other than their own. I doubt Richard had any idea that that would happen when he applied for the show, and I certainly wouldn't be happy in his position.
MisterAl wrote:
What about the numerous times when the Banker has made comments about the player's friends and family? About how they should think of their children? Is that not even worse 'emotional' tactics than what happened yesterday? But I don't recall everybody being so outraged about that kind of thing.
That's true, but I tend to think that the player's family
is their responsibility; any money they win will presumably be used by/for their family as well, so it's not unreasonable to remind them of that and expect it to affect their decision. Richard and Andrew, however, presumably had nothing to do with each other before they appeared on the show...however much they may have got on, Andrew's welfare isn't Richard's responsibility.
MisterAl wrote:
As has been said many times before, if The Banker acted in the same way to everybody, then the game would get boring and predictable. The reason why Richard got such an offer and Jane didn't is, I believe, pure chance.
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree there, as only the Banker (or whoever came up with the idea for yesterday's show) will know his true motivation!
MisterAl wrote:
To reiterate the point I finished with before, which nobody has really responded to, these players are being given the opportunity to win serious life-changing money. Why shouldn't they be tested a bit? Richard yesterday won £35,000, tax-free. Many people would have to work solidly for over two years to achieve that, with all of the stresses and strains that work involves. For the majority of people, there'll be more relationship pressures involved in over two years at work than the dilemma that Richard faced yesterday.
I think my main problem, as I said earlier, is that Richard would have had no possible way of expecting this to happen. He'd presumably seen that 200+ shows had aired before he applied, giving people the chance to win life-changing money without having to face the dilemma that he did, and would have had no reason to expect that his game would be any different. It would be naive to think you could get through a job, or any important aspect of life, without ever suffering any strains or pressures in relationships, but it's not necessarily what you'd expect from appearing on a TV gameshow.