Was just interested to see what was the more important to you.

I went for personality, I dont give a crap what someone looks like as long as they can make me laugh

Being totally honest (as always ) I have to admit they would both be in equal measures.

I voted "Personality first but looks do play a part". While I'd like to be able to say that I couldn't give a damn what she looks like, that sadly just isn't true...personality is definitely more important, though.

Yeah, I sort of agree with Daniel.

It really depends upon whether this is talking about what someone is looking for in a potential partner for a long term relationship or not. Ultimately what a human being should want to be remembered for is for their personality alone, and when it comes to how you judge someone or choose friends looks should have no bearing on things at all, but in terms of looking for a potential partner for a permanent relationship then as you might have to share a bed with them for the rest of your life you would want to be just a bit attracted to them wouldn't you?

Well said there Rico. What u said was spot on.

It was meant in terms of choosing a potential partner hence why I voted
" Personality first but looks do play a part"

Looks are of course what first attracts you to a person. Then personality once you get to know them.

If you find they have zilch personality then you aint gonna get far really are you!

Well you know what they say!

Same with people with big hands... they have big gloves.

Do I need to say what I chose, because I'm sure people can guess

I was wondering when you'd find this thread.

I went with "personality but looks play a part", which seems to be the most popular choice and it is certainly how I feel. Although, you often make first judgements based on looks, so maybe that's initially more important...

I voted ''Personality first but looks do play a part'', I love a person with a great personality and sense of humor

Yep, it's 'Personality first but looks play a part' for me too. It's entirely natural to be initially drawn to someone because of how they look but you'll never sustain it if you don't then become even more drawn towards them because of the way that they are.

And, conversely, it's entirely possible for someone to become less attractive in your eyes the more you get to know them.

personality first but looks do play a part, for me...

What's that supposed to mean?

Actually, it may suprise you all that sense of humor is a very important thing to me, and I did actually dump someone because even though he was gorgeous, he got really over protective and jealous, and he wasn't much fun. Really, I'm not as shallow as you all seem to think. So there!

But I did still vote looks are everything, because I seem to have got more shallow as the years have gone on

I love you hammondstar